The Sexiest Garment Women Can Wear

What is the sexiest garment you own? What makes you feel your most beautiful? Do you have it in different colors? Men, what one article of clothing can a woman own that drives you absolutely crazy?

It's been in my experience that the sexiest thing a woman can wear is not found in her closet. It's not in a pair of heels. Not in the makeup isle. She cannot go to Dr. NipTuck and get it inserted, pulled out, pinned back or pushed up.

The sexiest thing a woman can wear is her confidence. Confidence in yourself will carry you a long long way. Trends fade, looks slip and when you trip in those high heels confidence in yourself will help you to get up.


I cannot tell you how many times I didn't feel like I wore the best top to go with a skirt. My shoes didnt match my slacks perfectly or my make up felt so wrong for this photoshoot or that picture makes me look horrid. We all have these days. And if you don't, well then I hate you...lol.

Seriously, who doesn't feel like the whole world is staring and laughing at some point? I do. But, you can't let days like this keep you down. Confidence helps you to look attractive...no matter what. You can be in sweats and your confidence will have someone taking notice of you.

You've heard that saying, never leave home without it. Take your confidence where ever you go. Stand up straight, square your shoulders, put a song in your head ( or turn on your mp3 player )and step with purpose. You don't need to have a destination in mind...but you need to look as if you're just enjoying the moment.

Life is a gift, and confidence is the bow. It just makes everything look and feel better.

Confidence, never leave home without it.


I have a test...this is for everyone, not just the ladies....

Think of a song that gets you amped. Something that makes you wish it was Friday nite @ the club and you just walked in and that song came on...You wanna hit the dance floor and let it hang out. THATS THE SONG!!

Put this song in your head tomorrow...when ever you get up...walk to the beat of that song. Hum it. Feel it. And then tell me how much action you get out in public...how many second looks, smiles and possibly numbers. Keep track and comment me back with the number...you'll be sweetly surprised at what you get.

*kisses*

Sexy Halloween is Near

Ladies, ladies, ladies!!! Please don't be one of those many many people out there who end up with the last remnants of what can be a great holiday! Halloween is about fun and excitement and what can be more exciting than a hot costume??

You need time to prepare...time to make the right decisions...what you NEED to do is be proactive. I've already decided what I'm going to do for this halloween season...can't tell you thou....its a secret...but its going to be oh so sexy! I promise...

BUT! I am not going to leave you out of the loop. I know some of you have trouble finding costumes so I'm going to give you a heads up. Make sure you plan out your choices thou...and please make sure you take your body size and type into consideration before really commiting to it.

Click on the link in this blog to take you to huge selections for your halloween needs. If you cant find what you're looking for...then email me with your questions and I will do my best to hook you up!

Remember, its about fun and excitement...and the perfect costume is definitely what any girl needs to feel her most fab...you're fab already, but who doesn't need a little secret here and there?

Sexy Shoes Ladies...A MUST

Look, I know shoe shopping for some of us can be a nightmare...believe me. I know!! But have you stopped to consider the alternatives to sexy foot wear?

The last time I check, sneakers or flip flops was not on the cover of the last hottest men's magazine.

And I could sit here and blah blah blah about how important it is to put your best foot forward...but you already know that.


How about I just get to the good part of this blog and give out my shoe secret...


I heart stripper shoes. I do...I buy them and I don't strip...in public anyway...

I get my shoes from http://www.snaz75.com/

You go here ladies...and trust me...if you don't pass out from sexy shoe overload...you may pass out at the affordable costs.

Now like I said...sexy shoes are a definite must in the world of the ultra fab...you're fab already...but who doesn't need a little secret here and there?

Mention my blog when you go...

Welcome to Vishouz Secrets

I want to thank you for tuning in to my new blog spot: Vishouz Secrets

Basically what I plan to do with this blog is to hopefully help a lot of big and curvy girls out there looking for a break.

Being plus sized has its own disadvantages but style and sex appeal is not one of them. I am going to tell you where you can go for the great buys, who to see for that hot look and in doing so...hope that you acheive a more fab you. You're fab already...but who doesn't need a little secret here and there.